******* pissed off bride!!!!! help me please?

it's your wedding even though they are paying half only you will remember it and believe me they won't, besides you are the one that will show your kids the video in the future uming you want kids. although you do have to live with your mother in law for awhile till she probably slowly dissapear out of her baby boy's (your fiance"S) life, stands up for yourself but nicely in a non bitchy way... ( and no your husband cannot intervene. it really isn't pretty when the son stands up to his mother for his soon to be wife that would make you happy but it will hurt your mother in law even if she's wrong, she will take out the frustration on someone and pray that it isn't you or her own son. Good luck girl!!!