Can anyone help me with this guy? Sorry this is long...?

Be yourself, don't try to push it with him...Sometimes it is better to let him take the lead, since you aren't sure.Be available to him, if he really wants more you will find out soon enough.he may be thinkng about how he wants to go to the next level, just like you.You will want to keep the easiness between you, YOU WILL WANT HIM TO THINK THIS IS ALL HIS IDEA..Whatever he likes about you has kept him in your friendship, so don't change..But you have to allow him to pursue you a little more than you pursue him.Even if you think he is too slow..Enjoy him,and the time you spend with him.The best relationships start with friendship and liking eachother.He respects you , as you have pointed out, that is really good.All this make take is a little more time..